Mom will never understand me?

I just feel very fed up with her. Whenever I break down and cry she doesn't care. Well if she would, just for a few minutes till she finally burst and scold me for being lazy, curse and such. I know we both have faults but can she be more understanding and listen to me for a while? Whenever I tell her my problems, she'd be like oh its okay blabla, then BAM she shouts at me for crying and tells me how bad I am. I would say 'can you please listen to me?' and she'll be like, shut the f up and stop being so emotional. I have no place to pour my feelings to. Fine, I'll keep them to myself. But when I stay detached, she'll be like oh, what kind of daughter are you?! WTF SHE WANTS!? I just feel that she'll never understand me. I'm very sad and frustrated, sobbing out now. :(